These Gay Men Have A Dire Warning For Men Against Marriage Equality (VIDEO)

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Young Progressive Voices

The tide is turning in the war for marriage equality, but the DOMA decision has taken the battle state-to-state, and equality has not yet won. In the spirit of that, and in light of the fact that the majority of Americans support marriage equality, let’s remember one thing, guys — if you don’t support marriage equality, gay men will marry your girlfriends. Doubt it? Watch the hilarious video below, and see if you aren’t convinced.

Here’s the video:

If that doesn’t convince you to stand up for gay rights, I don’t know what will!

In all seriousness, despite national victories on major LGBT marriage equality cases, the battle still rages state-to-state. LGBT activists and allies alike must join together in solidarity, in each state, and make sure that the law follows the right path — equality for everyone.

Reposted from Addicting Info with permission.

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Man Candy Mondays: Nichkhun

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Nichkhun Horvejkul is an Thai-Chinese American Korean pop star (man, what a mouthful that is). He is best known for being a singer and rapper in K-Pop mancake group 2 PM.

And maaaybe hitting a motorcyclist while under the influence. There was that whole thing too which is totally OK because he apologized. To the fans. Nichkhun is one of the hottest dewds in K-Pop. Nichkhun is a passable singer and rapper, more utilized for his fluency in English and Mandarin (and his abs) than his rapping or singing abilities. His appearances on Running Man are always great, where Nichkhun shows amazing athletic abilities and a quick wit which proves that God had to knock him down a peg or two with the drunk driving incident (that poor motorcyclist was a pawn in God’s divine plans). But even God couldn’t shake Nichkhun’s supreme confidence in his abilities or looks. Yup…

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Check your freezer: 22,737 lbs of beef recalled


The United States Food Safety and Inspection Service announced Tuesday that 22,737 pounds of ground beef products are being recalled on fears that they may be contaminated with E. coli O157:H7.

The recall is categorized by the FSIS as “Class I”: a health hazard situation where there is a reasonable probability that the use of the product will cause serious, adverse health consequences or death.

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Most women now a days will often complain that all the good men are taken, married or gay. I have to say I agree with most women – all the men that I’ve come to lust after are either TAKEN, MARRIED OR GAY…..or more importantly kpop idols. Now when I think of my dream guy I picture a man who can fix things, is funny and has an accent. Now the accent doesn’t have to be British, Spanish but those will be alright by me. I happen to be in love with southern accents and southern boys in general but I’ll take a good northern gentleman as well.

Now the cowboy I’m looking for is not in fact real a cowboy but more like the old Hollywood cowboy mentality. Like southern gentleman who likes to get his hands dirty and will still respect a woman’s virtue. A guy who can go out a kick a guys ass but come home and handle his woman – in an awesome way. Am I a lady with her head in the clouds and should I go ahead and get with the times and take my video game cowboy who might be a little pale for lack of sunlight but still awesome? I like a guy with hair on his body and who doesn’t use more products on his “do” than I do and a guy who can read a map! I also like guys who are not afratid to get dirty and have a good work ethic – not everyone can be a successful reality tv star!!

I will not be that bitter wench that generalizes ALL men into the TMG (Take, Married or Gay) category – I will say it’s just the men I’ve come across. I will also say it’s not just an issue with men – I have my own issues at well. I do not cook – it just might be my eternal damnation. Out of the 3 sisters – I’m the one who can ruin Ramen. I can cook rice and maybe a little stir fry – so if you want to eat that everyday forever I’m your girl. I’m also a little on the antisocial side – actually I wouldn’t call it antisocial more SHY AS ALL FUCKING GET OUT. Also I have the mouth of a sailor on a bad day – I drop the F bomb way to casually. Most women now a days are not the coy little school teacher that used to live on the prairie. We’ve evolved into either Beyonces, work hard for your money and keep it classy, or the Ke$shas, work hard at partying, party, have sex, work hard at having sex, take vagina shot and send to best friends(facebook) and keep is trashy. Now that is just a generalization – there is a big gray area in there but I dont feel like typing it all out. I’d have to say the gray area I fall under is the Jessica Day of women – quirky and happy but can appreciate a sexy man when she gets her paws on one.

Now back to men and the one I’m looking for – my dream guy would be a mix of Kim Heechul’s vibrant personality, Ock Taecyeon’s goofy ears and teeth and the smooth vocals of K.Will oh and did I mention I’d like for him to drive like Paul Walker and then I’ll need the dorky sarcastic appeal of John Green. I actually have a massive crush on Jack Black – something about that goofy man just gets me every single time. I’m not sure if he is in fact my perfect mix of guys – but he is someone I have always thought was close to my ideal type. I’m actually very weird because my ideal changes every day – one day I want an island boy, next day I’d like a Boston man with that heavy accent and then by Saturday I want a Kpop idol. In my head I can hear Shin Bora doing her Brave Brothers skits about how women are the same as men when it comes to the opposite sex.

I do have something to say in the men’s defense though – as much as we harp about all the good men being taken I think women will sometimes over look a good guy that is right in front of them in search of their perfect man. We always read about nice guys being in love with their best girl friend forever but the girl is forever over looking them for that jerk down the hall with the huge penis. Also girls now a days are a little crazy, I mean they can now stalk the fuck out of you on facebook, twitter and instagram and can get jealous about posts on facebook, instagram and twittr. PLUS lets be honest – the virtue of women has went down a little as well. I’ve seen so many nipples and vaginas on my tumblr while I was looking for cute pictures of kitty’s it crazy – oh but same goes for pictures of dudes and their penises? Damn people keep your clothes on and pick up a new hobby – and for you folks who paying for porn you’re obviously not a member on tumblr because it’s free there.

Time’s have changed, dating styles have changed, men and women have changed and just in general life has changed. One thing that hasn’t changed is the fact that I still think manners, work ethic and hygiene are 3 things ALL women, except the Ke$has, will find sexy. If you have these things then you already have a leg up on your competition cowboy!! So here is a salute to you nice guys out there : )


With all the recent crazy that has been going on – I know that the human spirit has been put through the ringer right now. Why did 4 people have to die at the hands of 2 crazy guys? I might not have personally known any of the victims but I couldn’t help but cry a little for them. They had their entire lives ahead of them and they have died because of the warped perspectives of those brothers. I also feel sorry for all of those who are physically and mentally injured from this ordeal. How can people come back from that?

I keep reading about people killing their kids, shooting up places, going on a stab fest, child soldiers – I even read about a guy cutting off his arms in a Home Depot. How crazy and dark has this world gotten? Then you also need to think about places in the world where this is their EVERYDAY life – war is on their front door everyday. I’m honestly so tired of the level of crazy we’re living in right now.

I’m always asking myself do I really want to bring a child into this world? How much more crazy is going to happen before the world blows up? Is Jesus coming back and that is why all these bad things are happening? I have to admit I’m more nervous about things these days and that makes me sad. We always talk about the good ol’ days but honestly – those days are behind us. My mother told me to that I was now allowed to do the color run now because of what happened. She freaked out telling me not to go to crowded places anymore.

No matter how anxious and sad I get have to remember that there is still good people in the world. At the Boston bombing I saw plenty of heroes running towards the bombings instead of away in order to help the victims. We still have good people in the world out there trying to make a difference. If you’ve never heard of the community of Nerd Fighters then I suggest you look them up. One of our mains goals in life, besides being so darn awesome it’s insane, is to decrease world suck. They do community projects, raise money for good causes and just aspire to be good people.

I know that while the world is going crazy – we still have folks who are going to keep fighting back. I’ll continue to believe in the human spirit because if I don’t…then what? I have to just keep living my life the right way and hope that people will follow my lead.

Police: Boston Marathon bombs kill 2 dead, hurt more than 20

This Just In

  • Three killed including 8-year-old boy in bomb blasts near finish line of Boston Marathon, officials say. Area hospitals say at least 144 are injured, including eight children.
  • Two explosions happened at about 2:50 p.m., more than two hours after the first of the race’s nearly 27,000 runners had crossed the finish line.
  • journalist tells CNN “blood everywhere,” people missing limbs.
  • Race called off; Red Cross and Google set up websites to help people find loved ones in the area
  • Full story here; also, see CNN affiliates WBZ; WCVB; WHDH

[Update, 11:05 a.m. ET Tuesday] This post is no longer being updated. For Tuesday’s coverage, please read this story.

[Update, 11:41 p.m. ET] Stephen Segatore, a nurse who was at the medical tent near the finish line for the Boston Marathon, said emergency responders immediately went into mass-casualty mode.

“We had full trauma…

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Marriage – 1.The formal union of a man and a woman, typically recognized by law, by which they become husband and wife

When you look it up in Google that is the definition you get, most people now a days have different definitions. I myself am a firm believer in marriage equality. To me, marriage is the union of two PEOPLE in love, regardless of age, sex, race or gender. I have people of both sides of the fence when it comes to marriage rights. I have super conservative friends that believe homosexuality is wrong and that marriage is only between one man and one woman. I also have lots of gay friends who believe that love is blind and they need the same rights at any married couple.

My opinion on the matter is that marriage should be available to EVERYONE. Coming from a legal view, no religion at all, there is no reason at all why they should not be allowed to get married and get the same benefits as a married couple. If we make laws banning their marriage, that’s discrimination. We are taking a select group of individuals and taking away some of their basic rights that are supposed to be protected under our constitution.

Most people who are claiming that the institution of marriage should be protected – needs to take a closer look at what they are fighting for. As of right now – they feel that marriage is between one MAN and one WOMAN….and that is the only way a marriage is true. Well what about people like Britney Spears or Kim Kardashian? People like this who treat marriage like a cool thing to do with a guy you think you’re in love with. They have the right to run down the aisle with anyone at any time because it’s between one man and one woman. If anyone is harming the true value of marriage it’s crazy ass straight people. Straight people have been getting married, divorced and annulled FOREVER. People treat marriage like it’s nothing because couples have treated it like it’s nothing.

I honestly think that marriage itself should have more laws protecting it. Last time I checked marriage was not just about a big ceremony or party it was a promise to another human being to love, cherish and honor one another in sickness and in health until DEATH DO YOU PART. Not until 30 days in and realize that this was not the same person you dated for 2 months. Not 36 hours in when your buzz wears off and you realize that maybe the trip to vegas was a bad weekend trip. Marriage itself has become a joke, in my eyes anyway. People are not understanding what marriage really is. I think most people these days approach marriage as the next step, maybe not because they really want to do it but because they’d rather not jump back into the dating pool? It’s just sad to see people fighting to hard to protect this idea of marriage they have in their minds but it seems like they are fighting the wrong people.

Another argument was that we should consider the children in same sex marriages. I believe Charles Cooper had brought up procreation as the main reason behind marriage and that gay couples could not procreate. Children would do better with a man and a woman raising them. So infertile couples and older men and women who can’t make babies anymore – you’re not allowed to marry either because you do not have the gift of life. Last time I checked we have plenty of teen moms supplying our orphanages with amazing babies. There are also plenty of AMAZING single parent households that are taking care of their children and not a turning them into serial killers. I know they think in a gay couple will raise  a child that could possibly turn out gay? Um last time I checked,  my straight as hell aunt and straight as hell uncle raised a SUPER FABULOUSLY GAY SON!!  They are married, work regular jobs and they are  pretty much your standard family – one son turned out super gay and the other one turned out super sporty and super not gay.

Now I am a full supporter of EQUALITY – so with that being said I have also say that I respect those people who do not believe in gay marriage.   Most religions will say that marriage is between one man and one woman – but I’m not fighting for your religion to recognize my cousin’s future possible marriage. I’m fighting for his and his partners rights to the same benefits of a married couple. A persons religion should have no say in the legal rights of anyone in this country – that is the main point I think people are missing. If I want to speak my opinion about gay rights, religion or the fact that I love UNC more than DUKE, I have to accept that not everyone’s beliefs are going to be line with mine. I do accept that if you are a Christian,  you might  feel that homosexuality is wrong and I will not tell you that you’re an idiot or a bigot. That is your personal opinion – I will however shoot you down the minute you try to tell me that YOUR truth is absolute. As long as you do not try to tell me I’m wrong in what I choose to believe in then we’ll be fine. I think some people who are pro-equality need to remember that little fact as well.

 Gay rights is this generations civil rights movement, our next round of history books will have these hearings written in them.  Times are changing and so are the people, what might have been considered wrong at one point was eventually proven to be absolutely normal. So hopefully with time and more understanding from BOTH sides, we’ll be able to let everyone get jailed… I mean married.

Demonstrate by JoJo

I live in this fantasy where everything is amplified
Senses hiding in a flash and everything just comes alive
This pressure all inside of me is sexual anxiety

Baby there’s a lot of freaky shit running my mind that
I can’t say, but I know I can demonstrate
And I can let my body explain
I know I can demonstrate
So I’ma make it simple and plain
You just need to come over
I can just demonstrate

I’m arrested by the night and only you can set me free
Guilty but I’m not ashamed, I’m exactly where I wanted to be (yeah)
I leave the door open wide in hopes that you will sneak inside

Baby there’s a lot of freaky shit running my mind that
I can’t say, but I know I can demonstrate
And I can let my body explain
I know I can demonstrate
So I’ma make it simple and plain
You just need to come over (come over)
I can just demonstrate

I’m thinking come over, come over, come over
I’m thinking come over, come over
I’m thinking

Baby there’s a lot of freaky shit running my mind that
I can’t say, but I know I can demonstrate (I know I can)
And I can let my body explain
I know I can demonstrate
So I’ma make it simple and plain
Come over so I can demonstrate
(Come over)

OMG JoJo has grown up – and I have to say GO GIRL!!! I love this song and I love the new approach she is taking to music. I wish her record label would just promote her better!


This weekend my cousin ran a 5K in honor of my late cousin Kayla. This weekend’s 5K for specifically for colon cancer – and while I was so excited that she ran the race in honor of my cousin I can’t help but miss her more. I seem to only write about my sadness on my blogs BUT I have to get it out rather than keep it in.

I’m just sad. I’m so sad. I can’t say it enough – I’m SAD. I hurt and I want to cry. I’ve never been good at expressing my feelings but this sadness is eating me alive. I can put on such a show when it comes to acting okay and being strong for people but I’m broken.

I just wanted to say it out loud or rather TYPE is here. I’m tired of trying to be strong – today I’ll just let myself feel it all.